the life of cato the younger

I highly encourage everyone to read The Life of Cato the Younger. It is free online and linked here. So many great nuggets. This one stood out to me today.

“Moreover, that to which Cato gave least thought was his in greatest measure, namely, esteem, favour, surpassing honour, and kindness, from his soldiers. For he willingly shared the tasks which he imposed upon others, and in his dress, way of living, and conduct on the march, made himself more like a soldier than a commander, while in character, dignity of purpose, and eloquence, he surpassed all those who bore the titles of Imperator and General. In this way, without knowing it, he produced in his men at the same time the feeling of good will towards himself.”

A good leader doesn’t “own” anything. They are simply a steward of the mission/business/family/etc.